- Keep a record of all financial transactions, including dates, amounts, and sources of money.

- Save any threatening or abusive messages or emails.

- Take screenshots of any online activity related to the abuse.

2. Open a separate bank account.

- This will make it more difficult for your abuser to control your finances.

- Only give your abuser access to this account if you absolutely must.

3. Get a protective order.

- A protective order can help to prevent your abuser from contacting you or coming near you.

- It can also include provisions that prohibit your abuser from accessing your finances.

Seek support from a trusted friend, family member, or professional: Talk to someone you can trust about what is happening and get support and guidance on your next steps.

Contact a domestic violence hotline or organization for assistance: There are many resources available to assist you if you are experiencing financial abuse from an intimate partner.