Here's why:
* Metals are typically shiny, malleable, ductile, and good conductors of heat and electricity. They tend to lose electrons to form positive ions.
* Nonmetals are generally dull, brittle, poor conductors of heat and electricity. They tend to gain electrons to form negative ions.
Ammonium does not fit into either category. It is a positively charged ion (cation) formed by the combination of one nitrogen atom and four hydrogen atoms.