Here's why:
* Electrons occupy energy levels and orbitals: Electrons are arranged around the nucleus in specific energy levels and orbitals. The outermost energy level, called the valence shell, contains valence electrons.
* Valence electrons participate in bonding: Valence electrons are the ones that are most likely to interact with other atoms, forming chemical bonds.
* Number of valence electrons dictates bonding behavior: The number of valence electrons an atom has determines how many bonds it can form and the types of bonds it will form (ionic, covalent, etc.).
For example:
* Oxygen has 6 electrons, with 2 in the first energy level and 4 in the second (valence) energy level. This means it needs 2 more electrons to fill its valence shell, making it highly reactive and likely to form two covalent bonds.
* Sodium has 1 valence electron, making it likely to lose that electron to form a positive ion and create an ionic bond.
While protons and neutrons contribute to the atom's identity and stability, it's the electrons, especially the valence electrons, that truly govern how an atom interacts with other atoms and forms chemical bonds.